The last couple of weeks, she has been on stall rest. Many of you wonder if she will ever return to the competitive arena. Bucki is still in the decision process and weighing all of her options. We are aware of her countless trophies with her horsemanship, but let us share with one another the trophies of her life and the lasting memories that will live on.
Thank you for visiting this site for Bucki. She would like to express her gratitude for all of the support and love that has been poured out by so many that love her. She is completely overwhelmed by the response of her friends and colleagues. This has given her great hope and we pray this space will only continue to offer encouragement in this trial. We would like this forum to be a place for all of those that Bucki has touched to express their love to her, her family will be monitoring this and giving her all of the messages. Because of her lack of strength this is what we are asking for at this time. It is very difficult for her to have visitors or talk on the phone. She is surrounded by her family and drawing closer to God every day.
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Not the Best Patient 7/28
Although Bucki has been a wonderful patient, she did not teach Joey the same lessons. Last week when he was taken to the vet for his annual vaccinations it took 2 people to hold the little Jack Russell Terrier still. After wrestling with the crew for his shots, he came home with a sore leg and now is also on medicine. Maybe he just wanted to be a little closer to his mom and have some of the pampering and meds!
“Bucki’s Camp” Who is there? 7/30
We would like to share with you the some of the personalities that are represented at Bucki’s Camp. Pieces of a person’s character are often reflected in their choice of friends. I pray this blog will reveal yet another facet of how strong Bucki’s character is and how amazing those around have been.
Let’s Start with the Family….
Bucki's Mom, aka “Cupcake” to all is ever present and one that all have had the pleasure and honor of knowing. When they get to know her they realize that Bucki's strength of character and spirit came from her mom. As difficult as these days are for her, as no one should see their child pass before them, she delights in the opportunity to be with her. Gentle sweet kisses, holding her hand, laughter, tears, private conversations, and the soft stroke of her head provide the softness only a mother knows. Mom cannot sneak up on Bucky, even when she thinks she is asleep, Bucki can detect the darling shuffle of "Mumsy" as she enters the room! Mom is busted every time! She is the best runner with fresh water and cranberry juice.
Mary, Bucki’s next older sibling in from California, is available around the clock for her care or to just be with her. Keeping some family and friends updated daily that are not able to be here. She also is responsible for providing a famous cob salad almost every night with dinner, an attempt at offsetting the BlueBell for everyone.
Joanie, the next older sibling in the bunch a local from Oklahoma, has also made the ranch her home. Often on the early morning shift that starts at 1am she enjoys the chance to sit beside her sister anytime. Always busy keeping the rest of the family and friends updated daily, the duo of sisters provide much relief knowing the latest. Her husband, Bucki’s brother-in-law, Charlie has been on yard duty, in the Cherry picker pruning trees and keeping the ranch looking tip-top. Many times sleeping and snoring on the floor in the room when his wife is on morning rotation, Bucki is always asking, “Is he under my bed?”
On to the friends, that is basically family now…
Gail Holmes is faithful to massage feet and hands. She always offers the nutritious shakes now referred to as a “Gail Shake” that comes in many flavors. Gail also often sneaks electrolytes to her water or cranberry juice and is ever attentive to her care, a faithful and sweet friend. One who Bucki has been concerned with, "She is so nice, people take advantage of her." She did not say that sweet thing about some of the rest of Camp Bucki! So Gail or 'Uno' is the nice one in the group!
Gayle Karangus, or 'Dos' as she is referred to, has visited often and is a blessing whenever she comes. She brought the Ft Worth poster board with messages from fellow cutters that so lifted Bucki's spirits.
Joni Johnson, is a best friend who is here any time needed. She has helped take over the daily details of the ranch as horses and business must be tended to. Her angelic voice and soothing spirit minister to all. She has led great times of worship around Bucki's bedside. She is the great voice that leads a choir of joyful, yet pretty pathetic singers in those times of praise to the Lover of our souls, Jesus Christ. This so ministers to Bucki and brings refreshing to all of us. Her daughter Jessa is behind the scenes doing so much. She is the artist who sketched the horses for the web page and is working on various other projects for us. Her visits to Bucki, who had great spiritual impact and guidance on Jessa bless her as she is like a daughter to her. They have exchanged and shared a love for books and had countless deep conversations discussing something both had read.
Valerie Mulholland, or "Valvoline" as affectionately called by Bucki, is here from TX and helps round the clock. She brings humor with the feeling of “I can't believe she just said that!” Bucki, not so fond of some of her PJ’s told her she looked like a 'marshmallow' one morning and a ‘leprechaun’ the next day! Valvoline is constantly sharing stories of the numerous pranks played. Val is the mediator, wise beyond her years (that says a lot since she is the oldest of the core group!) and brings all of us to the central focus of Jesus and ministering to Bucki through laughter and heart felt visiting.
Wendy Stuart, is the kind and calm sweet friend who is here whenever needed. She selflessly serves and is content just to be with family knowing that many wanted to see Bucki. She carries Joey to the vet, runs any errands and is one we all have grown to love deeply. Wendy is one that's life, by her own account, has radically been altered by knowing Bucki. Her husband, Philip, also part of Camp Bucki, is here to help or just be with us. He has said that he has a better wife due to her knowing Bucki.
Barb Boyer, keeps all of us loosened up as we go to her for Myotherapy as needed. She is often here on slumber party detail and brings such steadfast faith and joy in her presence. Her husband, Dean, is here when he is able.
Danny Miller, is the root of total entertainment and one who is here to do whatever is needed. Head of security at the hospital or home, fielding calls, and answering questions has taken great pressure off of all here. He is an amazing friend who all has grown to respect and love. He is ever conscious to check on Cupcake with sincerity and genuine concern. He has set his business and personal life aside to help or to just be with us.
Tom Holt, how sweet and caring. He has had an amazing impact in Bucki’s life. He has been in and out of the hospital and ranch with us all. They both talk about events and share great stories. He has been the connection at Ft. Worth, and we are so thankful for what he has made the show be to Bucki. Always checking in and seeing how everyone is. His presence is so relaxing and reassuring. We sure do miss him, but look forward to his return.
We will add more Biographies a little later, as many members of Camp have not yet been introduced…
